This Ritual can be used when you want to attract a new love in your life.

You will need:

1. Special small box a small box, or basket (bound with a cover),

which has been linked to you with a romantic symbols or love relationships.

It is important that you are comfortable with the appearance, as it should be beautiful

and attractive to you.

You may also build your own box and decorate it with various symbols

(pictures,images and even photographs), which is often associated with love.



2. One Red candle and one Black candle.

3. Clue

As the new moon phase begins, you will need to find things to place in your box.

This may be a personal symbol of love, romance and intimacy.

When you collect 9 items, clean them from unwanted energies, and then charge them your love energy.

Put the box and 9 items in an altar, or a pre made virtuous circle.

Light both the red and black candles.

You will need to take each of the nine items in your left hand by turn, and visualize how the love

fills your life.

Try to recall and experience the strong emotions and feelings that overflew you when you were in love.

Then glue each of the items of the box, so that it would look stable which symbolizes the stability and your commitment to the long-term relationships.

If you have items in your collection that glue can easily ruin(such as wedding gloves for example)

you can just put them in the box instead.

Your intuition tells you where best to locate each item.

If you have to take a specific person, you put his or her photo in front of your box.

Wen your work is done, put the box in a special place in your house.

This ritual will help you focus your energy field of love and it will contribute to your wishes.

You have to open the box regularly as well.

Stare at your collection, visualize the love,joy,tenderness,understanding,in other words,what you would expect from the relationship.

If you happen to have additional valuable items to add to your collection in the box, you can do this by arranging an orderly ritual.

Working with Lilith can present challenges due to her complex, multifaceted nature. 

Common obstacles include:

*Emotional and Psychological Challenges*
1. *Confronting Shadow Self*: Facing repressed thoughts, emotions and desires can be uncomfortable.
2. *Emotional Intensity*: Lilith's energy can evoke strong emotions, overwhelming sensitivity.
3. *Fear and Resistance*: Initial hesitation or fear due to Lilith's misunderstood reputation.
4. *Self-Confrontation*: Acknowledging personal flaws, weaknesses and unconscious patterns.
5. *Inner Conflict*: Balancing light and dark aspects, reconciling contradictions.
*Spiritual and Energetic Challenges*
1. *Unstable Energy*: Lilith's power can disrupt emotional balance.
2. *Dark Night of the Soul*: Spiritual crises, feeling lost or disconnected.
3. *Energetic Overload*: Sensitivity to intense energies.
4. *Karmic Lessons*: Unresolved past-life issues or karma.
5. *Disconnection from Divine Feminine*: Struggling to embody feminine power.
*Practical and Relational Challenges*
1. *Boundary Setting*: Establishing healthy limits.
2. *Relationship Dynamics*: Navigating empowerment, independence and interdependence.
3. *Social Stigma*: Overcoming societal prejudices against Lilith.
4. *Balancing Power*: Managing personal power, avoiding domination.
5. *Self-Care*: Prioritizing well-being amidst intense growth.
*Spiritual Growth and Awareness*
1. *Misinterpretation*: Misunderstanding Lilith's symbolism or mythology.
2. *Unrealistic Expectations*: Expecting immediate results or simplistic answers.
3. *Lack of Self-Awareness*: Insufficient introspection, self-reflection.
4. *Inadequate Preparation*: Insufficient research, spiritual foundation.
5. *Unclear Intentions*: Ambiguous goals, unclear motivations.
To overcome these challenges:
1. Approach Lilith with reverence and respect.
2. Cultivate self-awareness through journaling, meditation.
3. Seek guidance from experienced spiritual practitioners.
4. Establish clear intentions, boundaries.
5. Embrace gradual growth, patience.
Working with Lilith requires courage, resilience and openness to transformation.